50 Hurting Experiences...from Loving

1. Letting go of a person you've just learned to love
2. Reminiscing the good times you shared together
3. Shielding your heart to love somebody

4. Trying to hide what you really feel
5. Trying to hide the tears that involuntarily fall
from your eyes
6. Loving a person too much
7. Giving up someone you never thought of giving
up
8. Having the right love at the wrong time
9. Taking the risk to fall in love again
10. Hiding your relationship from someone else
11. Controlling your feelings to avoid hurting a
friend
12. Thinking of him/her every waking and sleeping
moment knowing all the while that he/she never
even thinks a single thought of you...
13. Letting go, because everytime you see the
person, you only fall deeper
14. Holding back only to find out when it's too late,
you both felt the same way, but were only
scared to lose each other so much that you didn't
let the feelings out
15. Falling in love with someone you didn't mean
to fall in love with
16. Finding the perfect guy/girl...with only one
problem--- he/she doesn't love you...the way you
want him/her to...
17. Helping the one you love "court" your friend /
helping your friend "court" the one you love
18. Seeing the one you love crying for someone
else
19. Waiting also hurts like hell
20. Having to hear "... I've met someone"
21. Agreeing to his/her wish to 'just be friends'.
22. Asking his/her freedom back bcoz 'he'd/she'd
be happier with him/her'
23. Asking you to 'forget that everything happened'
and be 'normal' friends again.
24. Hearing that you're treated as a little bro/sis
(ouch!)
25. Sharing his/her future plans for the guy/girl
with you.
26. You stopped being friends bcoz his gf/her bf
asked him/her to.
27. Being denied in front of people.

28. Telling you lies where he'd/she'd been when
actually, he/she was with a 'new friend' or an
'old flame' (whew!)
29. He/she told you he'd/she'd be leaving you to
return to his/her ex? the one he/she left for
you!
30. Breaking someone's heart
31 .Fighting for that one thing that would make
you happy that is, holding on to a person who can
not guarantee you his/her commitment unless
he/she fix himself/herself...then, you are left
hanging for the moment...then he/she says, time
will tell... ang labo lang niya...but you still decided
to hope in him/her and trust him/her
32. Pretending you're OK when inside you're
dying...
33. Pretending to be strong.... and recognizing
your weakness
34. Lying in bed each night, thinking of that special
person you can never have...
35. Being with someone you can't actually love...
36. Pretending you don't love a person whom you
actually love...
37. Being in love...
38. Letting go even if you really don't want to...
having no right to say you are hurting because it
was your decision
39. Seeing the person you love hurt because of
you... and not being able to help that person...
40. Having the courage to say "I LOVE YOU" to the
person you love and finding out afterwards that
things will never be the same again when he/she
doesn't treat you with the same closeness as before
41. Having to face the fact that someone is
capable of completely destroying the wall that you
have set for yourself, leaving you weak and
vulnerable
42. Admitting that you love someone despite
his/her imperfections

43. Finding out that the more you try to hate
him/her, the more you end up loving him/her,
perhaps even more than before
44. Realizing how stupid your mistakes were that
led to your break-up.
45. The thought that this guy/girl, used to really
love you and you loved him/her as well but you
didn't give enough and he/she gave up on you
46. Sharing the one you love with SOMEBODY
else....."
47. Making a promise....and realizing that when
the time has come for that promise to be
delivered....the commitment is no longer there...
48. Violating your parents' rules for that someone
that you love.
49. Leaving your long-time friends because the
one you love cannot accept them.
50. The hardest thing about love - believing it